I'm in NorCal, car hasn't been driven in a month or so. I know about the carb issue. I've replaced ALL the hoses in the trunk, had the gas tanks re-sealed, had the system pressure tested. Its better than it was but the car smells something awful in the trunk and when you go into the garage, it has a distinct odor of gas. I have a 3 car garage in a newish house - the garage door does seal well.
I get the feeling the only issue remaining is the vented cap. I read on various forums for other cars with vented caps that they claim the cap vents only to the inside of the tank but not to the outside. I don't see how that is possible.
My only thought was to either live with it (been doing that, obviously), store the car outside (don't really want to do that - especially in the winter - I just got a nice shiny new paint job), try a charcoal canister somehow, or I've seen other people suggest adding a fan to bring air in from the outside. I guess that would involve drilling a hole in the wall and putting in some kind of pipe and a small fan. I don't really have an idea of how to do that, exactly.
Oh, I know what you mean about those rubber hoses on gas stations in CA - I find I have to leave a bit of air in-between otherwise the gas will slosh right back up to the hose and it won't fill at all. A real pain in the butt.